Welcome To Relationship Adviser

Bringing the honesty, romance and fun back into UK dating.

Date In Safety

We ensure you are only meeting with others who have also been fully verified.

Trelawney Kerrigan


My name is Trelawney, I work in partnership with the UK’s top Personal Matchmakers and Head-hunters as a Relationship Adviser.  My role to help single people find incredible relationships with both themselves and others.

The dating agencies you will find listed on this website provide an exciting, contemporary alternative to online dating: all offer professionalism; privacy; experienced, friendly Personal Matchmakers; dedicated Head-hunters and sophisticated singles events. As a Relationship Adviser who has written features for the national and international press – including The Telegraph, MSN, The Sunday Times Style magazine – I strongly support the concept of Personal Matchmaking, particularly in terms of the security and privacy it offers in this age of internet scamming and fake dating profiles.  All of the agencies offer free, no obligation consultations over the telephone.  Dating professionals appreciate that you may experience all sorts of emotions when deciding to take a proactive approach to finding love.  Be wary of anyone who promises instant success – a good Matchmaker will want your journey towards love to be exciting and rewarding, but will also want to take time to find the RIGHT kind of people for you.

In 2016, I helped to devise the Dating Agency Association’s Dating Safely Campaign – a national initiative setting new standards within the dating industry. The agencies that you will find listed on this website all adhere to the highest safety standards within the dating industry. This includes the use of award winning personal verification systems, ensuring that fraudulent profiles and financial scammers never make it through the initial vetting process.  Please download a free copy of the guide here: http://www.datingagencyassociation.org.uk/dating-safely-campaign

My unique background in both the dating industry, and international media, enables me to successfully match agencies and single people looking for love to high profile media projects – recent collaborations have included projects for ITV, NBC, BBC, ITV2. For media enquiries, please call me on 01789 532180.


What is Personal Matchmaking?
Personal Matchmaking agencies are typically used by successful, dynamic, single men and women who are taking a proactive approach to finding personal happiness. Many have become disillusioned with online dating and apps. They no longer want to leave finding love to chance. Personal Matchmaking offers a very human alternative. Clients feel supported, understood and confident of the people they are introduced to being of the high calibre they expect.

The below links can be clicked on to find out more about the agencies I work with. All are members of the UK’s Dating Agency Association.

Attractive Partners:

A Personal Matchmaking agency for successful, go-getting single people who are looking for lasting love. Senior membership advisor, Sarah James, is always happy to share an informative and friendly chat with prospective, new members. Attractive Partners clients are looking for a true meeting of equals, intellectually and emotionally.

Ultimate Attraction:

A traditional dating agency for ‘high calibre, wealthy and successful’ single people who are looking for long-term love. Though Ultimate Attraction is a city-based agency, its highly-experienced team of personal matchmakers and head-hunters work for clients across the UK. Clients include business people, academics and celebrities.


A long established agency for single people of fifty-plus. Avenues is very much for those with an eternally youthful spirit and a real zest for life. Membership Advisor, Victoria Davies, is highly praised by existing clients – “Speaking to Victoria was one of the best pieces of customer care and service I have ever experienced.” Avenues clients are looking for exciting, new relationships, where age is no barrier to love.


A personal introductions agency that promises a high calibre service within an affordable package. Searchmate attracts professional, highly desirable single people from across the UK. Membership advisor, Julie Lazarus, offers warm and friendly, informative advice to all prospective clients – she is incredibly proud of the service Searchmate offers and the broad spectrum of clients the Searchmate team work on behalf of.


A contemporary dating agency offering affordable personal matchmaking memberships to younger clients. Matchmakers brings a fresh approach to traditional dating for clients looking to find a committed, long-term relationship. Matchmakers clients are often ready to start a whole, new chapter in life and are looking forward to building a future – and perhaps a family – with a fantastic new partner.

Gay Relationships:

An agency for single people looking for same sex relationships. Gay Relationships offers an alternative to online dating and dating apps. Gay Relationship’s clients are very genuine people who are looking for long-term love and commitment. For some, joining Gay Relationships is an important step towards truly embracing an open and fulfilling personal life. The team are always happy to share informal, confidential discussions about how becoming a member of Gay Relationships can offer a new beginning.

find bespoke personal matchmaking services in the UK
Visit our partner websites above to find all of the best matchmaking and dating services in the UK
Contact Details

Tel: 01789 532180
Email: social@relationshipadviser.co.uk

Contact Address

8 Arrow Court,
Alcester, Warwickshire,
B49 6PU

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